Look I tell it as it is. It's easy to be nice to people...when people are behaving how YOU want them to behave.
But when people screw up....
How do you deal then?
Maybe a team member is inconsistent.
Maybe your spouse sometimes forgets to keep the shoe where it belongs.
Here's a common mistake: Using the language of absolutes.
"Never."
"Always."
"The most."
"The least."
When giving feedback, these words should be avoided.
Example:
You probably are a happy person. But one evening you're sad after giving a bad presentation at office. You're worried what will happen next, so you make some tea and looking outside the balcony.
And your spouse says: "Why are you always so depressed?"
Does that make you feel respected?
No way!
What if she said: "You are so happy always. But today you seem a bit upset. What happened honey?"
Every honey would love it. :)
Another example:
You have a direct report named Sathish who is sincere.
But one day he messed up a project and you tell him:
"Sathish today also you couldn't do it properly. You never do. What's wrong with you? What will I tell my boss now?"
Do you think Sathish will feel respected? Do you think he will respect you more now?
Make it a practice to use the RIGHT words at the right time.
More importantly AVOID using the wrong words...
I always tell my clients: CHANGE YOUR WORDS. CHANGE YOUR WORLD.
Have empathy for people. That's the first step of achieving AUTHORITY.
For achieving authority, you don't have to dominate over someone. You have to demonstrate empathy first.
Apply it in ALL areas of your life and see your relationships spice up like Bombay's Vada Pav.
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About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “THE KING OF CONFIDENCE”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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